March 29, 2012

Chipa!

Next week everyone will be eating chipa for Semana Santa ("Holy Week," the few days before Easter). It's a type of bread that gets eaten as breakfast, snack, whatever. Yesterday, I met a 13-year old guy on the bus who attends school from 6 till 11 AM, while his mom is making chipa (pronounce it CHEE puh).  Then, he takes the bus and a basket full of Mom's chipa to a town 30 miles away--almost two hours on the bus in high traffic--to sell at stop lights.  Every. single. day.  Well, he stays home on Sunday, but you get the idea.  13 years old, did I  mention?  His basket is a round, flat one, about 2 feet in diameter, which he stacks high with chipa and balances on his head.  He told me he's never had it fall off his head, but I'm not sure he'd admit it if he had.  ;)

Photo by Marisa

CHIPA TRIVIA:

  • Along the main roads of Paraguay, especially where there are bus stops, you'll find folks weaving through traffic, waving cars down, or climbing on the buses to sell chipa.  You're driving in the middle of nowhere on a long road to the next town, and out of the blue there's a chipa gal on the side of the road, flagging you down.  Like the Paraguayan version of a drive-thru.  
  • People who sell chipa are called chiperos (men) or chiperas (women).  The chiperas, unfortunately, have a shady reputation, and being a chipera is looked at as the worst sort of job.  I've heard parents using that job to harass their kids about an education, saying something akin to our "What!?  You wanna dig ditches all your life?" 
  • Chiperas on the roadside wear special uniforms to identify them, usually a very short skirt, a white apron, and pantyhose.  They are the only Paraguay women that I ever see in pantyhose/stockings.
  • Men seem more likely to have the big basket on their heads, balanced on a rolled-up hand towel.  The chiperas usually carry them in a more traditional basket with a handle. 
  • Sometimes chipa is shaped into various things, although I haven't figured out yet why they make the  animal shapes.  During Holy Week, sometimes you find chipa shaped like a palm branch.
  • At ungodly early hours, small trucks with campershells make their way through all the neighborhoods, their beds stacked full of chipa.  They use loudspeakers to announce their arrival.  Many of them blare out that they are selling chipa barrero, supposedly a bigger, better version.  Imagine being woken from sleep before sunrise, by a man in a truck just outside your window at about a million decibels of sound, screaming, "CHIPA BAREEEEEEEEERRO!  BAREEEEEEERO!"  
  • If you are speaking in Guaraní, the word CHEEpuh becomes sheePAH.  


Here's the recipe, although further from the city, I've noticed that people make it without much cheese and form it in the shape of a doughnut, unless it's a roadside stand.  It's harder in the doughnut shape, and the cheese makes it SO yummy, so I prefer this recipe, shaped into dinner rolls or long oval rolls.  Give it a try!

250 grams of pork fat (or butter, Crisco, etc.)
500 grams of soft cheese (Mexican works well, if you can't find Paraguayan cheese)
8 eggs
1 cup milk
1 tbsp salt
2 tsp anise seed
1 kg mandioca, yuca, or cassava starch


  1. Mix the fat, the cheese, and the eggs.
  2. Dissolve the salt in the milk, then slowly add the starch followed by the anise seeds.
  3. Knead the whole batch, till it's nice and smooth.
  4. Form ping-pong sized balls or either donut shapes, and bake 15-20 minutes at 350 degrees (slighty less for the donut-shaped ones), until the outside is browned a bit and kinda crusty.  (The inside remains SLIGHTY doughy, so don't try to cook it dry.)  
  5. Eat 'em while they're warm, because they are gooey and soft inside.  If they get cold, the crust can be quite hard to bite.
  6. It's baked in a brick oven (tatakua) here, but if you don't have one in your backyard, oh well.  Just use your electric oven and pretend it's a tatakua.  I won't tell.
If you want to follow Paraguayan tradition, make up a whole slew of these and take them to all your neighbors for Holy Week.  Just do it after the sun rises, and refrain from yelling, "CHIPAAAAA!" please.
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March 26, 2012

Stickers from the Bus

About a week ago, we were invited to a birthday party at a friend's house a few towns over.  Her little boy was turning 8, but it was more an opportunity to see old friends and catch up.  This was the same night as a church youth activity, so Ken decided to take the girls to that and I went to the birthday party.  Our neighbors were also going, so we all piled in together for a 2-hour tour of 3 different buses.  I will spare you the details of navigating the buses of Paraguay on my crutches, but let's just say I may not do that again for a long while.  

While on the first (practically empty--phwew!) bus, I noticed these stickers on the front window, just in front of the driver.  Before you check them out, let me explain a bit.  Bus drivers have a nasty reputation of being womanizers here, more so than the reputation that Paraguayan men in general have.  Often, the drivers stop off in certain towns and their "special gal" climbs into a "special seat" beside the driver, where she serves him terere (cold tea) until his next break.  I'll leave the rest to your imagination.  So nestled between the sticker that says, "Driver's Prayer," the silhouette of Jesus with his crown of thorns, and another sticker that says, "I drive but Jesus guides me," is the one depicting the driver with his terere gal.  It says, "A married bus driver doesn't exist."  


I kindly asked this driver if I could take the picture as I got off the bus, but I didn't explain to him how it sums up a problem we struggle with here--that of one's relationship with God not really having an effect on the behaviors of his everyday life.  The sad reality is that what we find is a culture very steeped in traditional God-worship in the form of outward religion, but no real heart change.  Somehow, no matter the topic, our teaching here always seems to wrap back around to the need for a heart change, the need to be in a relationship with God that changes who we are from the inside out.

Another sad thing that caught my eye this week happened just a few miles from us.  For those of you who share this blog with your children, you may want to pre-read this one before sharing it at the dinner table.  A 15-year-old boy's friend dismembered and buried him.  The arrested 19-year-old young man says he didn't actually murder his friend, but that his lifelong buddy appeared at his house injured.  He showed where someone had hit him in the head, spent the night, and died within a few hours.  The older guy then found that his younger friend had been shot once and stabbed numerous times, and was pretty freaked out about having the dead body in his own home.  So what did he do?  He took the body apart, put it in a few trash bags, and buried him friend in the backyard.  Who knows how much of the story is true, but it's a little freaky that this happened so close to us and that we have passed that neighborhood a trillion times.  Stories like this renew our passion to work with the youth here and keep them off the streets, showing them a better way to live--God's way.  What a tragic end to this young man's life.  Lord, give us strength and wisdom to minister to these people.
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March 22, 2012

The Word is Just Freaky!

Yesterday, it seems we spent the day in the Word.  My friend Susan, who lives close enough again to walk to our house, came over for the Bible study we've been doing in the book of John.  Her husband hadn't gone in to work yet, so he piled in for some of our discussions while Camille and Caroline took turns cooing at their baby girl, Zoe.  We talked about the importance of baptism, and how freaky it must have been for John the Baptist to be studying the Old Testament writings, come across the passage in Isaiah 40, and FIND HIMSELF THERE!  Imagine!  How did it dawn on him that HE WAS that voice in the wilderness, announcing the Lord?  Kinda like if I pulled out some ancient text that talked about a 30-something mom of 2 moving to Paraguay and getting hit by a truck.  Just freaky.  


After this young family left and we ate lunch, it was time for our family devotional time, which happens to be on spiritual warfare.  Yesterday's chapter was "Embracing Truth," and we learned how the truth sets us free from the bondage of shame and secrecy.   How sharing our own struggles brings freedom to those who may be in the same boat.  How admitting our shortcomings and confessing them in community breaks the power of enemy and opens us up for healing.  We all have these situations where we would rather wallow where we are than go to the trouble to "get it out there." But God's upside-down kingdom teaches that if we want that great feeling of release and light airiness (you know that feeling?) that comes with real freedom, we have to sometimes jump into the "uncomfortableness" of sharing and confession and admission of guilt.  How does that work?  Just freaky.

A few hours later, a small group came together in our living room--they're really "The Porch Group," but it was raining--for a time of sharing and learning.  We sang songs, insights from our personal devotions, asked questions, prayed.  Each person contributed something to our gathering, and out of nowhere, I think I felt a bit like John the Baptist.  No, I didn't wanna run out into the wilderness or get beheaded or anything, but I saw myself in the Word of God.  It was written a whole lot of years ago, but I realized that all those scriptures about sharing, about fellowship, about freedom, about those of us who need it--they were written just for me!  How is it that after thousands of years, the human condition hasn't changed THAT MUCH, and what applied to them then still applies to me now?  How is it that God was able to write this book that is absolutely timeless and applies to every person who ever lived or will live?  Just freaky.

But don't worry, I won't be cooking up locusts and wild honey tonight.
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March 20, 2012

Porch Fun

The porch is the center of activity here.  In Paraguay, most folks live outside because a hot breeze is better than no breeze at all.  The heat is just intolerable in the house.  In a typical country house, the kitchen and washroom and eating area (aka dining room) are outdoors, and bedrooms plus a small sitting area are inside. Gotta have somewhere to be if it rains, right?  The home we've been living in here at Hogar Ganar is designed with a front porch that offers shade and lots of space for hanging out, so we take full advantage of that.

One of the first things Ken did for me when we moved in was put up our hammock, which has followed us all over Paraguay.  It's there that I spend a lot of the day, because I can stretch out my leg in front and do my exercises.  A few chairs scattered around make an easy terere circle for socializing, and also for Bible studies and homeschooling.   

praise and worship in the shade

baby Zoe's favorite place to nap
Today we had visitors of another kind.  The girls and I were all studying quietly when the cows and horses made their way into our yard, and the next thing we knew, they were practically on the porch with us.  

They're only a week from finishing the 2011-12 school year, so not even wild horses could draw Camille away from her work!

Caroline was really hoping this cow would come close enough that she could feed him her math book. (Can you see him hiding behind the tree?)

This is the cow they tell me is crazy and will charge you, so for a split second I thought he might actually join us.  I had my crutches ready in case I needed to skedaddle!
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March 12, 2012

Behind the Scenes Updates


Here are a few updates on our daily life….

THE GIRLS:  Homeschool is wrapping up for the 2011-12 year, and it’s time for “summer break,” which is just in time for Paraguay’s autumn.  Camille is anxious to keep going and skip the break, with plans to finish 12th grade as soon as possible.  Caroline is content to do exactly what she has to and nothing more.  J  She is continuing with guitar lessons each week, and with the other folks who have picked up guitar lessons with her, Saturday has become youth hang-out day at Hagerman House.  Do you remember Milciades, the maintenance director at Hogar Ganar who has been training about 20 kids in running?  Camille has been helping him out, and she now trains the girls.  Friendly little competitions between them and the guys keep the kids in shape and give them a healthy hobby.  Not only are those who live in Hogar Ganar participating, but several children and youth from the neighborhoods, too.  Those who do well have been entering local 5k’s and even winning medals and trophies!

OUR LITTLE VW:  Good news!  The insurance company of the bus who hit us has finally agreed to pay for repairs.  However, the mechanic’s shop they use is very backed up.  We’ve been on the waiting list for a couple of weeks now, and although the damage isn’t horrible, it’s enough that driving it long distances isn’t a good idea.  Ken is continually repairing the parts that are breaking down/breaking off in the interim.  It’s funny how this little cheapie car we got to hold us over until we could fix the Mission Mobile, has become a major player in our lives.

MY LEG:  A few complications are making this recovery less than fun again.  I have patellofemoral pain syndrome, a broad term to mean that my knee hurts a lot.  It seems that when my quad muscles got so weak after the surgeries, they stopped being able to hold my kneecap in place.  So now any bend in the knee is causing the kneecap to slide out of its place and scrub against the other bones, and it’s pretty excruciating.  The solution is to alter the exercises I do and try to cut back on bending the knee, but this seriously hampers gaining enough strength to toss the crutches, and hampers walking.  I’m trying to be a good little patient and do all they tell me, but I sure am ready to toss these crutches.  February 18th made a year since the accident.   But the good news is that with less walking, I have more time to study Guarani, and we’ve been having more visitors, which means I get to put it into practice!

SAÚL:  After graduating high school in December, Saúl has now entered the university to study LAW!  If you’ve met Saúl, you know “discussing” is one of his favorite things to do, so we have no doubts he’ll excel in this field.  Depending on which way he goes with it over the next few years, he could work as a lawyer, in social work, or in a few other areas. University here is very affordable, and I’ve even been trying to tempt the girls to get themselves a Paraguayan degree instead of moving to the States when the time comes (ulterior motives, of course). 

THE MISSION MOBILE:  More good news!  The last bit of paperwork from the guy who (illegally) sold us our Montero 3 years ago has finally gone through, meaning, he paid the debt he owed on it.  So now the title is in the process of being transferred into our name, something the government does. (Meaning, this may take a while....) This should be the last step to finally making us the legal owners of this ole’ truck.  We are still saving towards getting the motor replaced in it, so our beloved vehicle can get back on the road after its year-long hiatus in the shade of the shade-tree mechanic's mango.

Those are the nuts and bolts of behind-the-scenes here.  It’s hard to believe some of these are still issues, and I struggle with sharing them because I don’t want to enter into a complaining session.  But we know God is moving in every situation, and that He has the ultimate last word in all.  Your prayers for us mean more than we can tell you, and I share this to give you specific things you can take to the throne on our behalf, if you please, and so that you can rejoice with us in the victories along the way!  : )  
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March 9, 2012

Random Thoughts on Mentoring


MENTORING. It’s one of those buzz words in Christian circles, but what is it?  It boils down to modeling a lifestyle in front of someone who’s watching you (sometimes called a MENTEE, although that's just a weird word to me and I never use it). 

At times, this is a really formal thing.  The pastor meets with his key leaders and discusses strategy.  A financial advisor meets with a new investor and explains all the ins and outs of economics.  A sponsor meets with a recovering alcoholic and gives ideas for getting through the day-to-day challenges.  A brother in Christ meets with his friend to ask if he’s winning the fight against his pornography addiction this week.  A seasoned believer meets with a new convert to guide her in the basics of a Christian walk.

More often, mentoring is happening all around us in an informal way, but we don’t always notice it.  Mom lets her little one tag along all day while she does the household chores, letting Little Susie use a small broom, wash the plastic cups, and knead the biscuit dough.  An executive wanting to advance in his job watches his immediate supervisor, paying attention to the decisions he makes and the way he handles his work. 

It’s something we are constantly thinking about in our line of work.  Sometimes it’s obvious, sometimes more subtle, but in a world of children and teens who usually don’t have active adult role models, you can bet they’re looking. 

The young, new mother is watching how I handle her baby, how I talk and coo with him, how I read the signs of hunger or sleepiness, how I sing him Bible verses or speak a blessing to him.  After a while, she’s comfortable enough to ask advice and share her concerns. 

The adolescent boy is curious about how Ken repairs the motor not only because he’s imagining repairing his own some day, but because it could turn into a marketable job skill, as well.  He’s also watching how Ken reacts to setbacks and frustrations with the work.  

The neighbors are watching how we react to each other as a family. The men and women both notice when Ken gives me a peck on the cheek or throws the Frisbee with the girls or serves me during this time I can’t walk, and in time they ask questions that open doors to talking about God’s plan for marriage and family. 

Sometimes being open to this may seem like a chore, and I have to admit that I had less time for it in the U.S.  It’s not convenient that someone shows up at the moment I need to discipline one of the girls.  And there are times Ken would rather throw the screwdriver than keep working, I’m sure.  Sometimes I’m tempted to retreat into a shell like a turtle and claim my private life as just that, but the truth is that people NEED to see God in us.  They need to know how to live out this Christian life.  They need to see real people making mistakes, getting up again, and learning as we go.  They need advice and guidance from people who may only be a step or two ahead of them in the journey, but who value them enough to invest the effort.  And while private time is important, it's a concept that needs to be evaluated.  That’s another post for another day….

We’re intentional about mentoring here, but wherever your mission field is, you can be, too.  Somewhere in your life, chances are that someone is watching you and maybe even imitating your life—analyzing your choices, noting the process you take in making decisions, mirroring your actions.  Pay attention to those who are looking up to you, and think about the example you’re setting for them.  Obviously this applies to those who live in your home, but your sphere of influence is probably much larger than that.  Who can you reach in a mentoring relationship? 
So being affectionately desirous of you, we were willing to have imparted unto you, not the gospel of God only, but also our own souls, because ye were dear unto us.  1Thessalonians 2:8
By this shall all men know that ye are my disciples, if ye have love one to another.      John 13:35

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